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You know what would make you happier, calm, and, healthier . . . but "but" gets in the way. Folks list & describe the many reasons they cannot, should not, or will not act in their own best interests..
Get off your "but" and disrupt self-sabotage.
Tip: If people accuse you of being selfish while you reformat your life, consider whether your accuser is trying to get their hands on time, talent, & treasure you need to achieve your goals.
You're a creature, a living organism that requires food, water, shelter. Are your basic needs being met? How about all the other elements of 'life' ... are they healthy & enriching, harmful or counterproductive, or a combination? Determination & willpower can't compensate for a lifestyle that would kill kudzu.
For decades I listened to very personal & extremely private information. I realized people were not simply sharing their stories. They wanted me to help make sense of it all. Apparently, I had been practicing couseling without a license ... so, I got one.
I have no idea if I'm the guy for you.
I am confident you can figure that out.
Counselors are like shoes, we all serve the same purpose but you gotta find a good fit.